I always hear people say you have to forgive and forget. So my question is, do you forgive and forget or are you a scorched earth type of person?
Personally, I try to forgive people for the things that they do to me. I never forget because that is how you learn how to protect yourself against the things that can hurt you. There are some situations in my life where I have held a grudge and vowed to never forgive a person for continually hurting me but it’s rare. My husband on the other hand believes if you forgive someone, it also means you have to forget all the bad stuff. He is a clean slate type of person. That’s just crazy to me.
How about you?
